Valentine's Day

I'm really not quiet sure about myself or maybe just because of what someone else says.

Have you ever heard the quotes?

"The ships don't sink because of the water around them, the ships sink because of water gets in them"

"Don't let what's happening around you gets inside of you and weighs you down"

It's like on Valentine's Day, I'm really fully enjoy of being single and where I'm at right now, I'm truely happy with myself.

And what I've heard about most of people was complaining about being single, said about how bad it is, how lonely they feel. Sometime you just didn't feel lonely because of being single but sometime just have heard too much exhausted words and somehow it drags you down slowly and lightly. You have heard and you have absorbed them deep to your feelings.

I also have heard about this so many times, how they complain about their life of being single and even how bad their relationships are. how terrible they feel to be single but I do totally understand them but one thing that keeps me happy as the way I am is..

I treat myself well and fully enjoy of what I'm doing, you wanna know how?

There are few things I do and always remind myself to keep doing it.

1.) Treat yourself as well as you expect anyone to treat you

You gotta treat yourself well first, that's what I have been doing during my early 20s, it's kind of knowing the value of ourselves, we gotta know the basic standard life of ourselves and once when someone was going to treat you the way that you should not have been treated, your inner feeling will tell you to walk away from those people and it will give you the right answer. Go treat yourself, give yourself some respect and when they see the way you treat yourself and they will follow your steps.

2.) Do what you love to do.

I only talk and do what I love to do and somehow the universe just give you more for what you want, and what you don't want, what you are thinking about and talking about, it will bring you about, anything you want, no exception. And that's the reason why I only enjoy about the things I love to do, because I know that the more I put the energy to it, the more great things happen. Do what you love to do to get more for what you want.

3.) Find yourself a YES

I really do enjoy doing my things like Traveling, workout, reading, photograph, and always doing new stuffs, sometime I need the suggestion to achieve my goals, and need the mentor to look for, it's difficult to find because not everbody thinks the same way as me. It's like you always find the "no" around you but keep doing and hold it there you will soon or sooner find the real "YES" and I also do avoid to talk with people who always says "that's impossible, forget it." I leave them alone.

4.) Giving love without any reason

Have you ever shown people the real you? I don't really care that much when people say "don't open up yourself too much to others" I fully open myself to people, I have kind of weird goal that I want to make people feel touched after few minutes of our conversations, like just fully open your heart, let's them touched your truly side, there is nothing wrong to open up. Let's them touch your kindness. Be kind, change the game into positive way. Love fully.

5.) Never ever go back to the past

I've been going through kind of real struggle like most of youths have been through but one thing I would never do is talking/going back to the past. I've been reading so many books and one of my favourite books said "if you are giving up then never look back, don't talk about it, don't join the group who talks about it. Find the new things to keep your heart beat faster" It has been helping me a lot, I do care and focus more about my present and the future, there is nothing I could do about the past. What I can do is make today be the great past for my own self future.

6.) Give yourself and another a chance

First thing after broke up, you need to give yourself a space to figure yourself out but don't blur out the way the past had done to you, we all are not the same, give yourself a chance to let good person to let you know that pure heart is still exist, give them and yourself a chance.